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| Each one of us has affected in one way or other as a result of HIV AIDS, children have lost their parents etc. |
Hi,it's my hope you are all aware that every December 1st each year is a World Aids Day. Before describing my purpose as per for the heading , just pass thoroughly through these HIV data for Tanzania mainland due December 2016
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Data
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Explanation
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5.3%
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HIV Prevalence for Tanzania mainland.
Equivalent to 5 people out of every 100
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6.2%
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Average women with HIV AIDS. Equivalent to 6 women out of every 100 women
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3.8%
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Average men with HIV AIDS. Equivalent to 4 men out of every 100 men
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10.6%
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Youths between the age of 15-24 years with HIV AIDS. Equivalent to 11
youths out of every 100 youths of such age.
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Remember the above data are obtained from normal voluntary testing, during preparation for matrimonial sacrament, during blood donation and during pregnancy period as a measure for prevention of HIV mother to child transmission.
You will agree with me that there is a good number of affected people particularly in rural areas where people have no education on normal health checkup. In such cases majority have myths of thinking my be they have been witched and spend resources to witch doctors and traditional treatments. In other words, the HIV affected population is larger than the statistically documented.
WHO HAS TO BE BLAMED?
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| Not me it's you, no it's you, not me. |
It's our selves with our government. Surely we voluntarily dig a dip hole and bury the current and coming generation . A large group of influential people in our society entertain the lifestyle of having premarital sex as something normal and necessary to pass through for youths. They are silent to talk on the causes of this rapid spread of HIV AIDS, instead they are busy complaining on the effects and also use a lot of time and resources in and out the country to deal with effects of HIV AIDS.
With my naked eye I once saw a certain organisation going to several academic institutions with entertainment facilities and youths groups. After arriving they conduct dances competitions where the winners are given condom boxes as a gift. Something worst they had a tent nearby where they invite youths (boys to girls) to enter the tent so as to be taught how to use condoms. And a lot of youths with no goals and self determination were going to the tent. Then we are shamelessly amazing why the HIV prevalence data are alarming every day. No need of amazing because we train youths who are sexually active to equip their mind towards thinking about sex only. Also when you visit government and private hospitals, you will meet condom boxes labeled 'take few leave for others' . This show how our minds are rottened and how we invest in promoting sex.
The theory of what is termed as 'safe sex' through condom use promotion has been used as a trap to capture many youths to enter this life hole, yet they ended having HIV AIDS. Condoms have been put in use in Tanzania for years even before the discovery of first person affected with HIV in Tanzania, yet the number of affected people is going up, yet we don't want to open up our eyes as we continue to invest in non productive project.
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| No more time for pointing finger to someone. The issue of changing life or certain mentality begins with one people who is you, not someone else. |
Through the above statistics, you can see that youths are leading for being highly affected. This is attributed by their behaviors also elder men to have sex with young girls as they use money to capture girls, students in particular.
WHY WOMEN ARE LEADING?
Something sad if not fanny , many of educated people and politicians when explaining this issue on 'why women are leading for being affected with HIV' . I said it's sad and funny because no one who even touched the root causes of the problem, but all relayed on effects, except religious leaders, at least said the truth.Many of them talked about gender imbalances, some are raped,poverty etc ,which of course contribute but very small percentage.
It is more fanny as no one questioned why in modern songs men dress very smart with good suits but ladies appear half naked with only under wears? No one complained why modern girls do not value their bodies anymore? They just show their body parts on roads rise boys' sexual emotion and impart bad mentality to children who see them? Remember children are so observant and learn to faster through observation. You, the so termed 'women rights fighters' why when comes the issue of lady's body value, you all wear tinted glass? You mask your mouth, oh my goodness, let us be serious please.
Here is the truth; the behavior of some ladies to see them as a highly demanded commodities to men, it has attributed men to have sexual relationships with more than one lady. Only few girls have relationships with more than one men, but many boys have a group of girls to whom they have pre-marital sex. This is because it's them (not all girls) who voluntarily become agents and recruit men through their wearing styles and failure to say NO which means 'REAL NO' . In that way it is easy for one HIV positive man to spread virus to many ladies rather than one HIV positive lady to spread virus to many men.
Personally, I am one of people who do not amaze anymore concerning this issue as ladies themselves entertain the propagation of the problem. But this does not mean men have nothing to do with the situation. The have also to learn and practice the life style of abstaining, saying NO when comes the issue of temptations for pre marital sex, practice self emotional control and allow God to monitor their lives.
It is true that when a girl practices to say NO from pre-marital sex, no boy can manage to change this, because it will not be just heard pronounced but lived practically.
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| Ladies, know that you have children on your womb, or you will have them after sometime. Have you ever asked yourself what kind of mother will you be? Your son/daughter expect to be born in safe hand to responsible and respectful mother. |
All religions sing the same song of abstinence, no religion that entertain her followers to engage in pre marital sex, let our minds manage and direct the body, guide it to productive issues like economic production and academic matters. IT IS POSSIBLE. FOR ALL BOYS AND GIRLS, IT'S YOUR TASK TO SAY NO FROM SEX AND WAIT FOR RESPONSIBLE MARRIAGE WHERE YOU WILL BE WITH RIGHT PERSON,RIGHT TIME AND LIGHT PLACE. IT BEGINS WITH ME AND YOU, LET US ABSTAIN FROM SEX AS A 100% EFFECTIVE WAY TO FIGHT AGAINST HIV AIDS, POST COITAL DEPRESSION, SCHOOL DROPOUT, FAMILY DISAPPOINTMENT, AND RELATED EFFECTS. IT IS POSSIBLE, START PRACTICING TODAY AND GOD WILL EMPOWER YOU.
Universal Chastity Education is here to help you make new step to your life, make new life circulation, prosper in mental rejuvenation and have heathly lives. Join the team, join the program, learn and teach others.
By Eng Herman Nguki
UCE Volunteer & Morogoro Regional Coordinator
+255 763 639 101/ ngukiherman@ymail.com
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